If your ex is showing you a little bit of interest, or seems
more interested in going out and spending time with you than before, or if you
notice signs that your ex is trying to flirt with you, then it's okay to be a
little hopeful but you need to avoid jumping the gun. Are you asking yourself
"does my ex want to get back with me"?
These are surely very common signs that your ex is
interested in getting you back. But hold on......Although you may want to get back with your ex,
you should NOT jump into things. Just
play hard to get (in moderation of
course), which is probably what your ex will best respond to anyway. If you
simply jump into things full force, then you may find your ex pushing you back
again. In fact, if your ex is giving indications that he or she wants you back,
then the odds are, it was you playing hard to get that led to the renewed
interest in the first place.
There is usually a
period of longing when you break up with your ex..... or he or she breaks up with
you. Of course you will be missing one
another and have an urge to get back together from time to time. This is especially true if you have been
together for longer than one year or
longer. There are memories and loving
times shared that will be thought of during this time. During this time past regrets will start to
develop and chances are that you ex is thinking the same things you are….. “Does my ex want to get back with me?”
Unfortunately…sometimes when an ex shows interest again
following a break up however, it is only a game. They may see that you love
them, and they may simply be trying to get attention, without actually
intending to get you back. So, unless your ex really seems genuinely interested
in spending time with you, they may just be passing the time because they have
no other prospects on the horizon. And worst of all they may see this as away to get revenge for some
perceived wrong. This is why it is important not to jump the gun, and why you should
focus on reading into the situation before you act on it.
This is common, and a lot of people find themselves
wondering "does my ex want to get back with me?", but the truth is,
its better to get a feel for the situation before you act. In reality, if your
ex does want to get back with you, playing hard to get (in moderation) is the
best scenario because it will prevent you from getting hurt if your ex is not
really serious about getting back with you.
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