What Should I Do to Get My Ex Back

There is nothing like feeling empty inside due to the loss of someone you Truly love.   There are so many emotions associated with the trauma of breaking up.   You may feel depressed, hurt, mad, or even worthless when you miss someone you love.  “What should I do to get my ex back ?” is probably a question that comes up frequently.

Start by getting rid of any irrational thoughts.   Get rid of the negativity.   Common courtesy and common sense can be the first positive steps in healing your relationship.   There are many books, blogs, forums and counseling sites that may be available to readily answer your questions, but it all starts with YOU.

If you’re preoccupied with your lost relationship, wondering “what should I do to get my ex back?” then follow this simple advice.  You’ll give yourself the best chance of getting back together with that special someone. 

Don’t play games.  This is very important, but unfortunately many people resort to this during breakups because it gives them a sense of power.  If you can make the other person think that you don’t care, or you care more than you really do, you’re manipulating them and that can feel great.  But it won’t feel great for long.

Eventually you’ll realize that lying and tricking the other person isn’t a good feeling. And anything good that happens because of it will always be sullied a little because of the lie.

Some people use the old ploy of making their ex jealous by pretending to be in love or dating someone else.  This may or may not get their attention and unfortunately can end up backfiring    Those types  of games can cause your ex to feel  resentment or feel as if you never truly loved them.

If you pretend to move on so quickly, what does it say about the love you shared with your ex ?   You have no way of knowing which way this ploy will work until it’s too late.

Don’t be mean. This holds true in any situation or any relationship, but sometimes the anger around a breakup makes us act more viciously than we normally might.  Even if you’re hurt, the fact that you want to know, ‘What should I do to get my ex back?” shows that you’re ready to forgive that person.  If you couldn’t, you wouldn’t want your ex back, you’d be glad it was over.

Now, think about how you’ve been acting.  If you were your ex, would you look forward to spending time with you or talking to you?  Or would you dread each time?  Do you shout and nag? Even if you feel like raising all kinds of arguments, simply don’t. Work very hard at controlling your anger and hurt, and being a person they can miss.

Conduct yourself in a loving and courteous way.  Remind your ex of why they fell for you in the first place.    Find something constructive to do ….work out….. find a hobby….. find something FUN to do.  As you do something positive and enlightening, you will start to heal and have a different perspective of how you see things.

These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren't my original ideas. I listened  to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.

T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". And you know,  I  learned so much in the process.   It candid and honest advice simply WORKS.   You can view his video HERE.