Secret To Getting Your Ex To Return Your Phone Calls

Being a Musician constantly on the go, I understand what it feels like to want to talk to the most important person of your life. Sometimes it takes TIME to heal from heartbreak or disapointments.
BE PATIENT.... Get in the Right Frame of Mind!

Do you think there are 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?It may be seem unbelievable to know that there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.Cool to know huh???This is one of the biggest questions asked by thousands of people just like you that are trying to put their relationship back together.

Let's talk about..."How do I get my ex to return my phone call,text or IM? "BUT... wait....

I need to give you a GENTLE WARNING! 

In the Magic Of Making Up, a complete strategy is laid out for YOU.  (You Can View It Here)

If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.

First things first!!

 WHAT NOT TO SAY!! 

Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works..and the worse... Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.These usually fall into 2 categories.

1) The PLEAD - Where the message sounds like "Michael, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

2) And the EMERGENCY - "Sue, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this." Can you see what is wrong those approaches? I think you CAN.I won't go on and on, I'm sure you get it........

How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage

Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are*Curiosity & Self InterestBut wait..here's the BIG SECRET! When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work wonders for you.

Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.In a friendly tone: "Hi Michael... It's Sue. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? Michael will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now...Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible.  But more importantly..

**A 2nd GENTLE REMINDER. 

Please have an underlying strategy like what is laid out in the "Magic of Making Up" BEFORE you call. 

If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.Okay? What I am saying is...What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call. Make sense?

Have a PLAN!!!!

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