Probably the single biggest piece of relationship advice for
men is to stop listening to what women say they want and start observing what
women actually display that they want.
How do they display what they want? It is as simple as observing what kind of men
they choose.
Women say “I want a man who listens to me.” They choose the man who dominates the
conversation. Women say, “I want a guy
with a good sense of humor.” They date
the guy who has money.
Why do women say they want one thing but actually go out
with a guy who is just the opposite? The
answer to that question lies in the subconscious motivators for getting
together. And, therein lies my
relationship advice for men.
The historical, biological reason for men and women to get
together is to propagate the species. In
other words, just because getting pregnant may be the last thing on her
conscious mind, when she evaluates a man at the subconscious level, she’s still
looking for a good papa for her children.
Is the good dad someone who listens to her? No, it is someone who will provide for her
children. And, the person who can
provide for her children is someone who has the confidence to bring home the
bacon.
Women need men who can be good providers. While a man can produce thousands of sperm on
repeated occasions throughout their adult lives, even into their 90’s, women
have about 400 chances of producing a baby.
As a result, they are looking for a man who can provide longevity and
stability for their babies.
A man who tells a women he is a lawyer and not a paralegal
will have a better chance of landing her.
That is because she perceives that a lawyer is a better provider for her
future children.
But having a good income is not enough. A woman needs to perceive that a man is generous
with his resources and will provide for her children. That is why women place such a high value on
gifts such as jewelry.
It may also be why the engagement ring must be such a large
purchase. When you ask a woman to marry
you, you give her a ring, not just because it is traditional and romantic, but
because it is a tangible display that you can provide for her and her children.
Further, even though modern humans make money more from
their brains than their brawn, women are still programmed to think of strength
equaling the ability to provide. That’s
why, even when there is evidence to the contrary in the form of a tax return,
the woman is hardwired to choose the lineman over the computer geek.
So, the biggest piece of relationship advice for men is to
figure out what women need from an evolutionary point of view and give it to
her.
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